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Decorated Veteran Comes Out as Gay in Posthumous Obituary

Edward Thomas Ryan, 85, revealed his lifelong secret and a 25-year relationship in a heartfelt message published during Pride Month.

  • Ryan's obituary, published in the Albany Times Union, included a personal message where he came out as gay.
  • He shared details of his loving relationship with Paul Cavagnaro, who passed away in 1994.
  • Ryan feared ostracism and chose to keep his sexuality a secret throughout his life.
  • His niece, Linda Sargent, encouraged him to share his truth in his obituary.
  • The obituary has resonated globally, receiving widespread support and admiration.
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