Inquest Highlights Coercive Control in Lilie James' Murder
Testimonies from experts and family emphasize the dangers of controlling behaviors and the need for cultural and educational change.
- Paul Thijssen murdered Lilie James on October 25, 2023, after meticulously planning the attack, which included purchasing a hammer and rehearsing the crime.
- Experts at the inquest identified Thijssen's behavior as coercive control, including stalking, digital monitoring, and manipulation during their brief relationship.
- The inquest revealed that a 21st birthday party, where James distanced herself from Thijssen, was a key trigger for his escalating behaviors.
- James' parents delivered a powerful statement calling for cultural change to teach men to respect women and prevent future violence.
- Released evidence, including CCTV footage and Thijssen's triple-0 call, underscores the premeditated nature of the attack and the risks of technology-facilitated abuse.