Reader Contemplates Cutting Ties with Selfish Cousin

Seeking advice, a reader shares their struggle with a cousin's one-sided behavior and emotional drain.

A reader seeks advice from Annie Lane on dealing with a selfish and manipulative cousin, feeling used and contemplating cutting ties.
The cousin in question rarely initiates contact unless to brag or complain, showing little interest in the reader's life.
Despite a close relationship in childhood, the cousin's lack of effort and communication has led to frustration and emotional exhaustion for the reader.
Annie Lane suggests open communication about feelings and the cousin's lack of support, but also acknowledges the possibility of needing to distance oneself if the situation doesn't improve.
The reader's dilemma highlights the challenges of maintaining relationships that become one-sided and emotionally draining over time.